The seduction of doing

Ever heard the old adage "to kill two birds with one stone"? It's a common belief that the more we do and the faster we do it, the better. In work settings people often turn to multitasking in hopes that it will give them more time to do the things that are important to them. But despite good intentions, psychological studies reveal that attempting to switch between complex tasks actually slows us down. Clarifying next action steps accelerates the process by increasing focus. Multitasking can be a great distraction when you have resistance or unidentified fears about a goal. So much killing birds.

A different perspective is that we should manage our activities according to the limited time we have. There are only 24 hours in a day... what do you want to do with them? If this is true, then the only way to have more time for the things you love is to give up the things you don't. Enter the concept of identifying your Great Work versus Good Work. This simple can assist in aligning with your natural priorities, but it still puts "doing" in the center of the picture.

Despite countless attempts to attain relaxed focus, most people are walking around with a sense that they should be doing more. Ironically, holding onto "shoulds" and attempting to multitask are productivity killers. "Shoulds" don't work because our basic selves rebel against coercion. And trying to do more than one thing keeps us from being fully present and halts creativity. The best thing we can do is forgive our shoulds and come present. A wise and trusted friend offered me the following suggestion, especially for ambitious people: "Do less. Be more."

Some great reflections on doing and being from Blog of a Yogini:

And so the rub. I am a "doer". Organizing and coming together and seeing projects through is a skill of mine. And I enjoy the praise connected to getting things done. But when you are trying to "get stuff done," its easy to miss out on what is really happening.

A teacher of mine, Amit Goswami, refers to the "do-be-do-be-do-be" rhythm. As human beings, we are constantly in the tension between being and doing. And within that tension, our life happens.

This touches on another culturally accepted belief that doing is the best way to get what we want. (Wish we could ask the authors of Manifest Destiny if it worked out for them.) But what is it that we really want from the world? Success, money, recognition, happiness, peace... the list goes on. Ultimately all of these things can be reduced down to one thing: love.

A reminder that love is not something to seek out in the world. It exists inside of you right now. In this moment, whatever you think you should be doing, take a moment to be aware of what is present every day, all the time, in each moment. Pausing in this way can help us remember the simple truths in life. But doing more or less, slower or faster, is neither right nor wrong. It comes back to "Do less, Be more," which might be amended to say, "Be more, whatever you do."



Stay tuned for more on doing, resting, and la siesta.